Our Little Corner
Some of our musings, write-ups, shmoozing and the like
Wednesday, March 26
Questions in Halacha - שאלות בהלכה
Wednesday, March 5
The Travelling Chassidim visit Hendon, London, UK
Press Release: The Travelling Chassidim visit Hendon, London, UK
The Travelling Chassidim were invited to the Torat Chaim Shul in
Hendon, North West London.
A group of Belzer Chassidim and families from London and Westcliff
spent Shabbos with the community as part of the celebrations marking the 20th
anniversary of the Shul's founding.
This was a Shabbos that the local community will not forget so quickly.
In addition to the 20th anniversary jubilee, there was also Rosh Chodesh and
Shabbos Shekalim, which added to the festive mood.
Adults and children alike were enthralled by the Chassidim who were
dressed in their Shabbos garb and by the lively singing, dancing and animated
storytelling. The children took turns wearing the shtreimels and took a keen
interest in its fabled cost!
The Carlebach Kabbalas Shabbos was led by Chazan and singer Moshe Mordechai Meislik, with uplifting singing and dancing.
Shabbos morning davening with Halel was followed by a gala kiddush, which the entire community enjoyed. Special thanks were extended by Rabbi Ephraim Mirvis, Chief Rabbi of the United Hebrew Congregations of the Commonwealth, who attended the Davening - flanked by the Rov of the Shul, Rabbi Blau, and Rabbi Yisroel Yaacov Fine of Kinloss United Synagogue in London.
Se'udah Shelishis was attended by large numbers of Shul members,
peppered with Divrei Torah, song and schmoozing, which broke down many a
barrier and built many bridges between the Hendonites and Chassidim, cementing
a relationship that will grow and flourish for many years to come.
Shabbos was ushered out with a musical Havdalah, led by Yaakov Klein of
Eyleycho, followed with lively dancing.
As with the many other communities inviting the TCUK for a Shabbos, the Toras Chaim Shul found this Shabbos to be an incredibly inspiring and enjoyable experience. Here is what Avi wrote to the Travelling Chassidim: "Thank you again for all your incredible singing and efforts in making our Shabbos such a memorable one!"
Tuesday, February 4
No two hours are the same
‘No two hours
are the same’:
20 years in,
Efrem Goldberg loves the rabbinate
The Boca Raton
Synagogue, which has grown some 150% since Goldberg took the helm, is poised to
undergo a $20 million expansion.
Vita Fellig (Feb.
3, 2025 / JNS)
At 6 a.m. every
morning, except on holidays and Shabbat, Efrem Goldberg, senior rabbi of the
Boca Raton Synagogue, dives into a 44-degree ice bath, a daily ritual that he
calls a “game-changer.”
“It’s amazing,”
he told JNS. “It’s fantastic.”
Goldberg, who
has led the Orthodox synagogue in southeastern Florida for 20 years, told JNS
that “all the research” suggests that a polar plunge of the sort he takes “is
healing, helps with inflammation and blood flow and recovery from workouts.”
Subscribe to The JNS Daily
Syndicate and never miss our top stories and analyses
By signing up,
you agree to receive emails from JNS.
“Your strong
instinct and desire not to—helps you grow your capacity for leaving your
comfort zone and breaking out of boundaries,” he said. “It’s like starting the
day with three cups of coffee.”
Expanding his
near-freezing comfort zone is an apt metaphor for Goldberg’s two decades at the
helm of the synagogue, which has grown by about 150%—from 400 families when he
arrived in Boca in 2005 to about 1,000 today.
“Twenty years
go by very quickly,” he told JNS. “If you watch a plant grow, you don’t see it
grow, and when you’ve been part of a community’s growth, you just feel it.”
The Jewish
community now has more schools and kosher restaurants, and “the era of the
Jewish community around all of South Palm Beach is exploding,” Goldberg said.
Behind the Bima
An avid
podcaster and fixture on social media, Goldberg often posts inspirational
messages or about Jewish music that he likes. Less typically for a man of the
cloth, he is also very outspoken, including on politics and Jew-hatred.
Rabbi Efrem
Goldberg, senior rabbi of the Boca Raton Synagogue. Credit: Courtesy.
Last month,
he referred to
the liberal Jewish group J Street decrying sanctions on the International
Criminal Court in The Hague as “like standing with the French in the Dreyfus
trial or with those leveling blood libels instead of the innocent victims of
them.” He also told the
anti-Israel, progressive writer Peter Beinart that a Jewish prayer about
slanderers and enemies of God.
In December,
Goldberg spoke at Mar-a-Lago and “reflected on the miraculous nature of Trump
surviving an assassination attempt, emphasizing the role of divine protection,”
per 5TownsCentral.
“As a rule, I
don’t believe rabbis should use their pulpit or public voice to weigh in on
politics. I have never endorsed a candidate or party and try to not be partisan
in both praising, expressing gratitude towards and supporting elected leaders
on both sides who stand with Israel and the Jewish people,” he told JNS, “and
calling out and holding accountable elected leaders on both sides who act
against the interests of Israel and the Jewish people.”
“When I
comment, I try to do so judiciously, infrequently and with a goal to be
productive, not simply to be provocative or controversial,” he added.
As a “great
optimist,” Goldberg aims to be positive and share positive messages.
“However, being
positive is not to the exclusion of being a realist and confronting issues of
our day, be it external to the Jewish community or from within our community.
The mission to be positive and productive is not a contradiction to addressing
issues from loneliness and dating to fertility to mental health,” he said. “We
can positively address and impact these and other areas that affect all
communities including our Jewish ones.”
Goldberg
launched the podcast Behind the Bima in 2020. It features unscripted
discussions with his assistant rabbis and often with outside guests about
contemporary issues in the Jewish community.
“Until the
COVID-19 pandemic, our work was all offline for the local community,” he told
JNS. “The pandemic really caused us to pivot and to be able to embrace an
online community and reach out without taking away from our offline community.”
The podcast
also provides a platform for topics he wouldn’t preach from the pulpit.
“For a drasha on
Shabbat, I would never bring in politics or my personal opinion on things that
others are entitled to different opinions about,” he told JNS. “That’s
where Behind the Bima comes in, or on social media. It’s an
opportunity to weigh in on some of those topics.”
Diversity
The “backbone”
of the Boca Raton Synagogue is its diverse yet unified congregation, according
to Goldberg.
“We have people
who drive to shul on Shabbos with a less religious background,
and they could be sitting next to somebody sitting in a shtreimel,”
he told JNS. “We have Chassidim and everything in between, and we get along
because we’re one community.”
The
congregation is Orthodox “in the sense that we are unbending, unyielding in our
commitment to our masorah, our tradition, to halachah,
to the timelessness of Torah,” he said. “On the other hand, we’re
non-judgmental. We’re loving. We’re warm. We’re welcoming, and we are committed
to diversity and unity, wanting to ensure everybody feels comfortable and
engaged.”
Goldberg told
JNS that growing up in Teaneck, N.J., he never expected that he would lead a
congregation one day. “I don’t come from a background of rabbis,” he said. “My
father was a businessman. My grandparents weren’t rabbis. I don’t come from a
line of rabbis.”
Working with a
youth group at Congregation Bnai Yeshurun in Teaneck, N.J., while he was
studying at Yeshiva University inspired his community work.
“When I was at
Yeshiva University, I started working with youth teams at the shul, teaching,
learning and running programs, and it made me feel alive,” he said. “It really
made me feel like this is my purpose in life and for a long time, I thought I
would go into Jewish education.”
Goldberg
credits his wife for encouraging him to join the rabbinate.
“My wife
Yocheved deserves all the credit,” he said. “She told me, ‘You’re doing the
wrong thing. You belong in the rabbinate, not in education.’ She’s 1,000%
right.”
“I never could
have lasted in education and I think those people who do it are amazing, but it
wasn’t for me,” he said. “I love the rabbinate. I live for the rabbinate
because every day you wake up, no two days are the same.”
The job is a
“mix of entrepreneurism, creativity, vision, learning, teaching, counseling,
pastoring, life cycle, events, community organization, Israel advocacy,” he
said. “No two days, no two hours are the same, and it just has everything.”
Guiding
community members through hardships, such as illness or abuse, can be painful,
he said, but navigating community politics is the hardest part.
“There are so
many problems that we encounter that are not man-made, that are natural and we
would give anything in the world to not have them, like illnesses,” he said.
“Man-made problems can be hard to have tolerance for, and when people
manufacture problems or conflict or create politics or power struggles, that’s
some of the frustrating parts of the job.”
“It goes along
with the business of leading a community,” he said.
Looking ahead,
Goldberg told JNS that the synagogue is slated to undergo a $20 million
expansion. “Our goal is to make our campus a hub of Jewish life, Jewish living
and activism that will magnetically draw people from all over,” he said.
“My philosophy has always been that our best is yet to come, and as much as we’ve accomplished, our new campus will be a platform that can support our doing even more,” he added. “I want to be a resource for not only South Palm Beach County but the whole South Florida community.”
כל השמות והכינויים של מצרים
מצרים
בהפטרה של פרשת וארא ובא
ביוצרות לפסח
גושן
חם תהלים ע״ח נ״א: ראשית אונים באהלי חם.
התנין הגדול
עם הדומה זרמת סוסים זרמתם
מוף
מצרים המדינה מצרים העיר כמו שכתב הצל״ח ברכות ט׳ ע״א
נוף
נא אמון
סוף
סונה
פות
פתום
פתרוס
צוען
רעמסס
תחפנחס
Monday, February 3
Pass the Parcel - NOT!
From • Country Yossi • September 2008 • Tishri 5769 • Volume 21, No. 4, #148
- Three Yeshiva-Bochurim are now sitting in jail in Japan. A Heimishe Yid announced that in honor of Reb. Elimelech of Lizensk's Yahrzeit, he was giving away free tickets to Lizensk. He claimed that "he had only 3 tickets left." Of course, a ton of men and Bochurim wanted to get the "three last tickets." One boy was a few weeks before his Chasuna, and he almost got the ticket, but his father didn't allow him to go. These three were the lucky ones to get the tickets to Lizensk. It made sense. Then, at the airport, the Yid showed up and said, "If you take this suitcase of antiques to Japan on the way home, I will give you a few hundred dollars. They thought, why not? They were normal boys from normal families. They went to Lizensk, and then to Japan. In Japan, the authorities are very strict about drugs; they are very sophisticated, and caught it in a second. The Bochurim are today in solitary confinement, in a 4x4 cell. They are being subjected to extremely cruel treatment and do not even get to see the sunlight for a moment at all. All they get to eat there is rice. The situation is extremely serious, as in Japanese law, such an offense can incur life imprisonment, or worse. Hashem Yeracheim!
- A Frum man, holding a few boxes of Matzos, asked a Yid on the plane to help him with his load. He held the package for him and upon arrival at the terminal, he wanted to give back the boxes of Matzos. The man asked him to carry it through customs. He replied that if he can first look inside the box, he'll be willing to carry it through. The man refused, took back the box, and went to look for a different innocent victim.
- A Yungerman sat in jail in France for a year, together with his wife, for doing a Tova for a Heimishe Yid. She had a baby in jail!
- A Chassidishe man asked an elderly woman to take a pair of winter boots to Bnei B'rak. "They're expensive in Israel," the person said, "and warm boots are needed, as it is cold there." She took it. Upon delivering it to the recipient, he cracked off the heel, told her to wait until he counted the diamonds, and sternly told her that she's lucky that the correct number of diamonds were there!
- A Frum man asked a Bochur to take an envelope containing Shtorey Gittin to Rav Meir Brandsdorfer from the Eida Hachareidis. On the plane, the Bochur mentioned it to his friend. The friend exclaimed that the same thing happened to him. They became suspicious. They went to the bathroom on the plane, opened the envelopes, and found that they contained drugs! They flushed the drugs down the airplane toilet. Upon arrival in Israel, the authorities pulled them aside but found nothing. The Bochurim then explained what happened. The police checked the airplane toilet to corroborate their story, found traces of drugs, and let the Bochurim free. What had happened? The drug dealer tipped off the Israeli customs agents about these two Bochurim in order to divert the Israeli police from the big cache that they themselves were bringing in.
- A Yungerman was travelling from London to Israel. His neighbor asked if he could take Nescafe coffee to his relative. He said no problem. As he was putting the jar in his suitcase, it fell and smashed. Out came a handful of diamonds. He was furious. So, without saying anything, he took a brand new unopened jar and gave it to the relative. (After playing dumb for a while, he gave back the diamonds, along with some Mussar.)
- Before Rosh Hashanah, a Yungerman was approached to bring into Israel a few Shofars. He decided to practice blowing from them, but he just couldn’t get a sound out of them. He inspected, and it turned out that they were stuffed with drugs.
- A young man from Antwerp married in the US. After a number of years, he wanted very much to visit his parents in Antwerp for a Shabbos, but wasn’t able to afford the plane ticket. He found out that there was someone willing to pay a ticket if you brought back a "small Pekele" of diamonds. He decided to take the risk. The worst that can happen, if caught, is that the authorities will confiscate the diamonds, he thought. On arrival in the U.S., he was frisked by agents and was shocked when they told him that the "Pekele" contained drugs. He sat in one of the worst prisons, wearing orange prison clothing. Unfortunately, this wasn't the first such case that had come before this judge, and so the young man was deported after a year.
- A famous Machnis Orach in London got a call from one of his guests saying he’d left behind his Tallis bag, and could he send it with someone going to Israel. The Machnis Orach said, "I'm going next week, I'll take it myself.” On arrival at Ben Gurion airport, it was discovered that there were drugs in the Tefillin bag. They wanted to arrest him, so he called his Rav. The Rav said that according to Halacha, he wasn't allowed to give over the name of the perpetrator, but the Machnis Orach could tell the authorities that there was someone waiting outside for the Tefillin bag, who was guilty. He suggested that under the watchful eyes of the agents, the Machnis orach should hand over the tefilin bag to its rightful owner. The agents agreed, but warned him that with any suspicious movement, he'd be shot. He handed over the bag, and his former guest was arrested on the spot.
- An Australian couple took a Chumash that turned out to have drugs hidden inside it. They both were imprisoned. She was due to give birth any day. She almost had that baby in jail, but they let her out, though the husband was in jail for nearly a year.
- When taking medicine to Israel, take the bottle to your pharmacist to check if its contents match what is stated on the bottle.
- Do a Chessed, Pass The Parcel article to your friends, by eMail - not by hand.
- Call your local depot of Reliable Parcel International and let them handle your Pekelech . They are reliable, they charge less than solicitors and they actually deliver your parcel from door to door . . . No begging for favours, No paying for a cab at both destinations, No excuse!
Want to send a parcel?
See:
Sunday, January 26
Kosher Web II
|
----------------- ----------------- RELATED BBC SITES |
|
Trading Land - Threading Water...
Sunday, January 19
What I want from a mobile telephone
What I want from a Mobile Telephone
I'm interested in getting a mobile which is running an operating platform that is compatible with Nokia's OS, or at least it can seamlessly exchange data.
Software Features:
- Profiles: It should have TIMED profiles - from 7am to 9am Silent Profile, which switxhes to Outdoor Profile afterwards automatically
- Transfer dictionary to other mobile/PC
TxT:
- 'Learn' new words: The spell checker learns new words but it should retain them for future use, and remember them. Not like the Nokia 7610 that ‘drops’ words as it goes over a certain limit of new words learned! Otherwise I have to spell every new word all over again.
- Also, I shouldn't have to 'teach' the mobile new words that have been saved into the spelling checker, after each re-boot (this really happens with my existing Nokia 7610!).
- Cancel TxT messages from outbox whilst they are still there, waiting to be sent
- Predictive TxT - When writing an SMS, learn new words and remember it in the dictionary
eMail:
- Copy and paste sent or received eMail content
Contacts:
- More flexibility with sent or received Business Cards
- When sending a Business Card as a TxT message, to be able to edit the message.
- Do not send Business Cards as Business Cards only as editable TxT
- Learn names: When writing a TxT message, the spell checker should allow the usage of stored names in the telephone book. Otherwise I end up spelling a name once in the telephone book and then again in the text messages.
- Transfer contacts to another mobile
- Find a name or multiple names as I type a number: sometimes I save a number under a new contact, whilst this number is already saved under an existing contact. As a result, the caller display does not work, as it cannot show both names.
- When searching for a name, be it a person's name or a company name, it should bring up either (sometimes you remember a name but not the company and vice versa).
- Predictive Contacts - Find any contact that contains the first search character entered etc. (also referred to as Wild Cards, to describe a search using '*')
- Capacity to store about 10,000 contacts, each of which will contain Telephone numbers and other data relevant to a particular contact
- Long Contact Names (more than 12 characters)
- When transferring contact telephone book to/from Outlook / Act / etc., it should keep the Contact Labels (i.e. Nickname, Son's Tel No, Swiss Mobile) which I ad to contacts, and also keep the details within these fields.
- Contact Groups that can be transferred to another mobile
Calendar
- Transfer Calendar Items from one day to the next
- Copy Calendar Items from Calendar to TxT Messages, eMail etc.
- Calendar to have default ON for Alarm
- Synchronise Calendar, Address Book, Memo and other Notes with PC
- (Outlook) or MacOS (iCal or Entourage)
- Connect Calendar to Address Book (or Contacts) so that if I want to set a reminder to call someone I can have a option in both Calendar and Address Book to Make A Reminder/Note (sometimes described in Technical Specifications as "Shared Memory" or "Dynamic Memory")
- Set recurring appointments for a day, a week, a month or a year - and/or workweekdays (i.e carpooling) only or weekends (i.e. play tennis) only - or a certain day / set of days of the month (i.e. mortgage payment)
Languages:
- English
- Hebrew
Integrate
- Link to USB on Windows (2000 / XP / NT ) 11, Server, Compatible
- Mac Compatible
Hardware features:
- Handset features
- SmartPhone-like handset
- Speakerphone
- Image Capture
- Audio Integration
- Voice Capture (MP3 or any format that can be transferred as a computer file)
- Cordless Recharger
Display:
- When a caller answers a call, it should indicate so on the display
Connectivity:
- BlueTooth that works ALWAYS
- Infra Red
- USB
- WiFi
Contract Details:
- One to Five Years
- 1,000 Minutes p/m, anytime, anywhere, any network - Transferable to next months
- 100 TxT messages - Transferable to next months
- 100 eMail messages - Transferable to next months
What I don't need:
- WWW Accesss
- WAP Accesss
- Video Capture
- Videoconferencing
- 400 Ringtones (3 is just right)
- Bluetooth Earpiece
- Gaming
- Moving parts (flippable mouthpiece like Motorola, expandable keyboard)
- Car Kit
========================
I started this document on 21/11/1995, when the mobile was becoming more ubiquitous and the prevalent models were I-mate SP5, XDA (O2) or Treo, (Orange), E-Ten, or a PalmOS / SmartPhone, N95, Nokia N95 8GB, N82, E51, E61i.
Updated 19/01/2025