By Bassi Gruen
Right off exit 96, deep in the
Catskill Mountains, you will find Camp Ruach Chaim.
Play baseball, hockey, tennis,
handball, and basketball, go swimming daily – all in an atmosphere of fun.
Enjoy terrific learning programs,
exciting trips and cool arts and crafts.
Camp Ruach Chaim is for kids who
have Down's syndrome and other disabilities, Loy Oleynu.
This amazing camp began when
Rabbi Simcha Scharf, Belgium-born and currently living in Williamsburg, had a
dream of establishing a camp for high-functioning special-needs kids.
Rabbi Simcha Scharf had already
opened a Yeshivah, Banim LaMakom, for such children before.
His Yeshivah is on the top floor
of yeshivas Torah VeDa’as.
The students of Banim LaMakom eat
and play with the students of Torah VeDa’as and both groups gain from the
arrangement.
Summer, though, was a real problem.
Two months out of school often
caused the boys to lose a great deal of what they had learnt over the year.
There had to be a solution.
A Soaring Summer Success
Rabbi Simcha Scharf is a man of
action.
He spotted an advertisement from
Camp Kochavim offering space on their grounds.
He immediately contacted the
director, who gave him a "yes" that very same day.
That first year, there were over
a dozen kids, and enrolment grows each year.
This summer, CRC will be enjoyed
by thirty five boys, ages 9-27, coming from England, France, Holland, Belgium,
Eretz Yisrael, and all over the United States.
"Life
for a special kid is so full of failures," says Shani Plotzker, the
mother of a CRC camper - "We hear them say “I can't read well, I can't
do math, I can't write clearly” – yet they don’t feel inadequate. Camp gives the kids a summer of non-stop success.
They do absolutely everything their brothers and sisters are doing in camp. Sports, trips, color war, crafts – they can
do it all.
It gives
them an incredible feeling. My son
couldn't hold a ball before he went to camp. He came home dunking baskets!"
Dovid Plotzker is not the only
one to learn new skills in camp. One
mother was pleasantly surprised to find her eighteen year old son biking when
she came on visiting day. He had never
been able to cycle before.
Another mother was amazed at how
much her son had learnt with his Rebbe.
The kids learn to make their
beds, clean up the bunk and care for themselves.
"Aside
from all the many things camp teaches," says Shlomo, a counsellor in
CRC, "learning to be independent, to manage on one's own away from
home, is probably the biggest benefit."
A Packed Program
The camp day is packed: Wake up
is at 7:15 a.m., although early birds get to join the Cocoa Club. For the uninitiated, the Cocoa Club is a
pre-davening learning session, accompanied by hot cocoa, a real treat in the
cool mountain air. Then comes a learning session with the campers divided
according to their abilities, into small groups of five or six. They learn Chumash, Halachah and Parshah, taught
by teachers who have received special training for the job. They then move on to first activity, usually
sports, followed by second activity.
"A lot
of the kids would be happy just to relax on the grass," admits Rabbi
Simcha Scharf, "but I don't let them. My goal is to keep them busy and
active all summer long."
Lunch, canteen and rest period
start the afternoon, and then the action resumes. A dip in the pool is followed by sports
together with CY.
Minchah is followed by another
learning group, this time focusing on skills like reading, writing and math.
Then it's off to bed, so they can
be refreshed for a new day of fun.
The parents of the campers have
the joy of knowing that their son is part of a regular camp, and don't have to
face the pain of seeing their son isolated from mainstream society.
Caring Counsellors
Who are the people who make all
this possible? The counsellors are hand-picked for their golden hearts and
skills with children.
A number of them have a sibling
with Down's syndrome, so they know how to deal with these special neshamos.
There is one counsellor for every
two campers, to make sure the kids have all the help and supervision they need.
If a camper is sick, his counsellor
accompanies him to the infirmary.
The counsellors also stay right near their campers in the pool and on
trips, to make sure they're safe and happy.
“It was a fantastic experience for our son. The relief that your summer program provides to our family is immeasurable. Knowing how much Ephraim gets out of camping experience socially, spiritually and academically” E. Zussman, Denver, Colorado
Sometimes there are problems.
A child who refuses to eat, or
one who eats too much.
A child who is afraid of the
water, or scared of the dark.
Then the counsellors work their
hardest at helping find a solution.
A chart, a prize, or a story –
they keep trying, until they find the key to help this camper overcome his
difficulty.
They are led in their efforts by
the head counsellor, the dynamic, devoted R' Avrumi Rosenthal and Rabbi Simcha
Scharf, the director, are available around the clock to help the campers and counsellors.
"Sometimes,
at one o'clock in the morning I get this feeling that something isn't
right," relates Rabbi Simcha Scharf. “I go to the bunks and
find a kid outside with his counsellor because the kid refuses to go to sleep. I'm
able to persuade him to go to bed and can then sleep myself. Sometimes it's just a blanket that fell off
the kid. I cover him and leave."
Rabbi Simcha
Scharf personally dispenses all medication, a complicated and time-consuming
job in a camp like this.
"The
kids love him," Mrs Plotzker tells me. "He's like a magnet for
them. He knows just what to say and how to say it. Once, when he heard about a
family that had just given birth to a baby with Down's syndrome, he immediately
went over to the hospital to give them encouragement."
A Time to Relax
During the year, special kids
must labor mightily to master the basics most kids learn easily.
Understanding the words on a page
may take tremendous effort.
Holding a pencil in the correct
position for writing can be a true challenge.
Camp is a time to relax.
The learning sessions ensure that
what they have already mastered isn't lost, but the rest of the day is pure fun.
"You can do it."
is the message. And with the help of the
counsellors, they do. They climb up
walls fifty feet high, they play hockey, they water slide into the pool. Things they never would have normally tried,
they successfully accomplish.
Right off Route 96, deep in the
Catskill Mountains, is a very special camp.
I suppose we can say about Camp
Ruach Chaim, the same thing a grandfather said about his special-needs
grandchild's classroom. "You can feel the Malochim in the air."
Rabbi Scharf can be contacted at 718-963-0090,
or (cell phone) 917-754-0011.
Camp Ruach Hachaim is a
registered 501(c) 20-1610041 non-profit organization.
